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How to Act Like a Dominatrix
By qam
A dominatrix is a female who takes the dominant role in a bondage and discipline, sadism and masochism (BDSM) relationship. You could say they’re always “on top” of the situation. Here’s how to look and act like a domme.

Topic To Act Like a Dominatrix:

• Act Like a Dominatrix

To Act Like a Dominatrix Difficulty:

• Moderately Easy

To Act Like a Dominatrix You’ll Need:

• None

To Act Like a Dominatrix Instructions:
How to Look Like a Dominatrix

• Wear a bodysuit. A full-bodied (often black) catsuit is a mainstay of fetish and bondage culture. There’s a difference between a dominant lifestyle and fetishism, but the skintight black bodysuit remains an iconic garment in both communities. Make sure your suit is made from polyvinyl chloride (PVC), leather, or rubber latex.
• Buy a pair of thigh-high, stiletto-heeled boots. Like the catsuit, these boots represent dominatrix attire to mainstream culture. Platform boots can also be worn.
• Wear a corset. A corset is a close-fitting undergarment (often worn as outerwear) that helps shape (and hold) your body. A bondage corset has become a staple in fetish wear. A bustier can also be worn as an alternative.
• Other accoutrements associated with being a domina, include:
  • Fishnet stockings or garter stockings.
  • Gloves.
  • A whip or riding crop.

How to Act Like a Dominatrix

• Be confident. How can you dominate someone if you can’t assert yourself? Focus on the fact that you are in charge.
• Have a plan. There’s a big role-playing component with being a dominatrix. Be creative.
• Be flexible to your client’s needs. A dominatrix must be well versed in common BDSM practices.
• Do not engage in sexual intercourse. A dominatrix is not a prostitute.

• Props and toys are a big part of the dominatrix world. If you’re unsure what to purchase, visit your friendly neighborhood sex shoppe for some ideas.

• Don’t rely on media stereotypes to inform your attitudes concerning female dominants.